Mylostone – First Cold

My baby's got a cold :(

Ok, so it’s not a good Mylostone, but it is one nonetheless. I woke up with a piercing sore throat Monday morning – the beginnings of a winter cold. And by mid-afternoon my son Mylo’s eyes were glassy and he was sneezing. By nightfall the poor guy had a fever.

It reached 102.5 Tuesday morning, which was alarming to say the least, so off to the doctor we went. Luckily though, by mid-afternoon, his temperature was pretty much gone. They said to keep an eye on his fever and his willingness to nurse – which of course was not hampered the slightest!

I feel horrible that I gave my baby my cold. It is day three now and while we are on the mend, we also share a gnarly-sounding cough.

NYC Ups The Ante On Dog Laws

Alas, two bills were passed by the city council Tuesday aimed at protecting dogs in New York City. Now Mayor Mike just needs to sign them into affect!

The first one takes aim at people who tie their dogs up outside in all weather for hours and sometimes even days at a time. The second looks to a more than 50% increase in the licensing fee for dogs that are not spayed or neutered.

NY1 covered the story and posted a video here: http://tinyurl.com/4kuw95s

Also published on Huffington Post.

Mashed Avocado

My son Mylo recently started on solid foods. As I wrote in an earlier post we unintentionally started with something sweet, mashed bananas. Not ideal, I know, so at the behest of our midwife, we introduced mashed avocado soon after. I wish I had a picture of what happened when we did — better yet, I wish I had video of it.

Yea ok. Not my son. But it might as well have been.

Mylo shuttered, winced, scrunched up his face, began to cough and then threw up green!! And of course my husband and I could not help but laugh hysterically. I think it’s safe to say that we’ll be holding off on the mashed avocado.

Mylostone – First Tooth

Earlier in the week my son Mylo began pooping several times a day again. It was reminiscent of the newborn stage when he pooped up to a dozen times per day, but different because even during the newborn stage he would stay dry in between diaper changes for a longer period of time. This time he was only dry long enough for the next diaper to get on!

My poor baby had diarrhea. A little worried, I took him to the doctor who said there was nothing to be concerned about. He was bright-eyed and happy. Not dehydrated and most likely not a result of some foreign parasite. A relief, but why all the excessive pooping?

But then, just like that, the poop stopped and the tooth popped!

One day before Mylo was about to turn 5 months old, we lay canoodling in bed, him chomping away on my fingers as usual, and “ouch,” there it was. His first tooth. The texture and size of a lone grain of dry, basmati rice, the tooth percolated through his bottom gum and stared me in the face. (And there is a second one coming in close behind.)

The grill begins...

What To Expect.com says that diarrhea is a symptom of teething but that doctors are divided on the subject. They also note that some parents swear that their teething babies have bouts of loose poops.

I am now one of those parents, are you?!

Mylostone – Army Crawl

Another major Mylostone to share. The boy is on the move… last week my son Mylo did the army crawl for the first time – using his upper-body while in an army push-up to shimmy himself across the floor. He is going to have that tushy of his up in the air in no time! Or, maybe he’ll skip crawling and go directly from scooting into walking. Time will tell…

On the move...

My Review of Inglesina 2011 Fast Table Chair – Ribes

Originally submitted at Toys R Us

For use at home, while traveling or at the restaurant, the Inglesina 2011 Fast Table Chair in Ribes is a must-have table chair that’s as comfortable as it is convenient. Parents love the Fast Table Chair because of its simple, twist-tight coupling and its compatibility with most types of tables…

Amazing Seat!

By MomtoMylo from Broklyn, NY on 1/11/2011
5out of 5

Pros: Stable, Stylish, Easily Stowed, Lightweight, Portable, Easy To Assemble, Easy to Clean

Best Uses: Infant Seating, Travel, Baby Seats, At Home

Describe Yourself: First Time Parent

My son is five months old and this is not only practical but so efficient if you live in an apt. and space is a commodity. Plus, it’s portable and can afix to most tables when you eat out. Also, it seems Inglesina perfected the color with this model as the red is a real red. Most reviewers likened the 2010 model in red to be more of a pinkish color. I assure you this one is not. Great buy!

(legalese)

Mylostone – Solids

An important Mylostone to write about today! My son Mylo had his first taste of solids just before his 5 month birthday. We intended to start with rice cereal but one morning while he was sitting in his Inglesina booster seat, (another great find for apartment dwellers by the way), watching us eat breakfast, he began to foam at the mouth.

So I took a banana out of the bowl, cut off a small piece and proceeded to mash it up. Somehow, I don’t know how, he knew it was for him. He stared at the bowl intently and held on to the arms of the seat for dear life, as if the anticipation alone would knock him out of it! The only other living thing I’ve seen react to food preparation that way is our dog.

Yummy yummy to my tummy!

I know it’s not recommended to start with the sweet stuff, but it seemed fitting, as I grew up in Nigeria on mashed banana myself. We do a tiny chunk of banana in the morning now and tiny bit of rice cereal in the evening. And he absolutely digs it!

Johnny Jump Up

We recently bought a doorway jumper despite the fact that we only have three doorways. The entrance doesn’t work since we wouldn’t want Mylo swinging into the hallway and our neighbors doors, and since the bedroom is around the corner and down a hallway it made no sense there, either. Behold the bathroom: it is the most centrally-located of the three and a straight shot from the kitchen, where I spend a lot of time. (Not because I cook of course, but because I’m always stuffing my face!)

And of course Mylo loved it! But the jumper attaches to the doorway molding via two springs that prevent you from closing the door. Not exactly practical for a room meant for privacy. The same day we hooked it up we had two sets of visitors. My in-laws during the day, and our friends, at night. So while it might be one thing for Jason and me to go potty with the door slightly ajar, it’s not-so-nice for our guests! Sorry Mylo, but back to the store it goes…

Jumper in the potty!

A Longer Version Of “The Who”

Birth & Religion. My father is Palestinian and Muslim, and my mother, who is from New York, is Lebanese and Christian. Neither practice and I couldn’t be more thankful for that. While I do believe in something larger than myself, I also believe that the world would be a better place without religion.

My mom and dad grooving on their wedding day.

My name. I was born Taghreed Ghassan Taha. The Arabic meaning of Taghreed means the “singing of birds.” Ghassan is my father’s name and Taha is somewhat of a common Arab surname.

My mom met my dad in Beirut while hitchhiking across Europe. They fell in love and eloped. When the civil war started they followed my dad’s colleagues to Nigeria to wait it out. My brother was born first and I followed 13 months later (yes, I was an oops baby). We were given Arab names with the intention that we would be raised in Beirut.

Nigerians affectionately dubbed me “Taghreedu,” since West African tongue tends to end consonants with an “ooo” sound. From that my family derived the nickname “Reedu,” which was wise because my real name proved too difficult, and too different, for Americans. I was known by this moniker for nearly all my life, so while grappling with names for my unborn child in 2010, I decided to change my name permanently to Reedu.

School. If they offered a degree in being social, I would have graduated Magna Cum Laude. School was never my strong-suit. It took going to three different colleges but I finally grew up and got my bachelor’s degree. I even graduated on the Dean’s list and went on to finish Graduate Journalism School.

At the beach instead of class.

Work. After having my fair-share of bartending and waitressing jobs, I held a few coveted spots in Corporate America. I interned with CNN at the United Nations and got my first, real job as a customer service representative at the New York Stock Exchange. From there I went on to be a compliance analyst at Goldman Sachs. During that time I also began teaching introductory business classes at my alma mater. Two nights a week I was surrounded by teenagers who for the most part, knew what they wanted to be when they grew up. I found that inspiring and it set me on a path to get back to my roots, or at least back to what I spent 35 grand on an education for… writing. After a year of networking I landed a position as a writer and editor for a start-up financial securities lending company. The job was fun but socially demanding. It took me to Monte Carlo and to some of the finest restaurants and hottest clubs in NYC. It was the other end of the spectrum from my days spent behind multiple Excel spreadsheets on dual flat screens at Goldman. But in 2009 I was reduced to half time at my sexy writing job. It was a set back, but it also freed me up to pursue a passion of mine… animals. The start-up didn’t survive the credit crisis though, and at just three months pregnant I found myself laid-off and unemployed.

Animals. In Nigeria I grew up reluctantly eating goat — the same goats that were hung and slaughtered under the large tree adjacent to the sandbox that I played in. It was a daily struggle to get me to eat meat, and by the time I was 18 I became a vegetarian.

I grew up with pets but it wasn’t until I was living on my own in Brooklyn that I began opening my door to homeless animals. First came two cats and then a Pit Bull with two broken front legs. She was a victim of animal cruelty and was my introduction to a breed of dog that is not only largely maligned, but grossly misunderstood. I learned about the plight of NYC’s homeless animals and daunting euthanasia rates while volunteering at an animal shelter. This led me to start a non-profit animal rescue organization while supporting other animal welfare-related causes. And because not all stories about animals are warm and fuzzy, I found a niche on the Internet in writing for the voiceless.

My pretty little Pit Bull.